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Ladies: To Approach and/or Be Approached

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A lot of women tend to ask me how to send the right signals to a guy or how to read theirs, when they’re interested in someone. More often than not, these same women believe that the men should approach them and not the other way around. The problem is a lot of women are living with the idea that men must court them and that they should be the ones coming to them. This isn’t the Victorian Era. Do you really want to just sit there, waiting for Prince Charming to come swoop you off your feet? Ladies: IT’S OK TO GO FOR WHAT YOU WANT. Read on, and I’ll explain how to be approachable and how to approach yourself.
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Overcoming Rejection

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One of the biggest reasons why people have approach anxiety is the fear of rejection. The more you dwell on it, the bigger the anxiety becomes.  If you take it personally, you’ll likely become obsessed with the thought, “What’s wrong with me?” When one learns how to overcome it, they no longer have to fear it. So how do you overcome it?
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Casual Sex

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Often I hear women complain that all men want is sex or that all women only want relationships. Most women are afraid to sleep with someone on the first date out of fear that they’ll look like a slut, while most men are afraid to be honest with not wanting a relationship and fear she won’t sleep with him because of that truth. The the thing is: Not all women want relationships, and not all men just want sex. Everyone is different, and you shouldn’t let the dread of dealing with being honest about your intentions get in the way of what you want. Life is short; live a little. There’s nothing wrong with a little casual sex!
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First Date Ideas

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One of the biggest problems a lot of men make, when it comes to planning that first date, is being a little extravagant too soon. It’s absolutely cliché, and you should save the fancy restaurant for a little later anyway, when you’ve decided that you’re really that into her and vice versa. Stop thinking about what you should do to impress her. Instead, think about where you would want to go. If comedy clubs interest you, take her to a comedy show. Art galleries and museums something you frequent? Invite her out to an exhibit. Are you a fan of jazz music? Take her to an amazing jazz lounge.  This is a reflection of your interests, and you can see if she’s down for the adventures you take her on. If you opt for the classic dinner date, don’t be too fancy, and if it’s possible, always choose to sit next to each other rather than across. This makes things much more intimate, especially if you’re in a loud restaurant. With that said, the following is what I find to be great first date ideas and why.
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Sexless Relationships

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Hi, Annie

My name’s David* I’ve been with my fiancé for 13 years now. We have sex once every two months even though I complain and try to get things started, but she turns everything down! She knows I love her, but I need more. I can’t take how infrequent our sex is. How can I suggest having sex with other people from time to time?

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Anal Sex

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More often than not, I hear men complain that their wives or girlfriends won’t let them venture through their back door. Guys try to coax their lovers to let them stick “just the tip” back there, and more frequently, I always hear, “I had to be drunk to do it, and now I can’t walk,” from said lovers. Even though I didn’t experience pain one is expected to feel, when having anal sex for the first time, I understand why it does for most.  From what I have learned, women either hate or love anal sex. There really isn’t an in between, particularly because if it hurts the first time, one isn’t likely to want to try it again. While anal sex can hurt, it really should not. When done correctly, anal sex is extremely pleasurable for both partners. I remember my first time…
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